How to Meet Women at Parties

How to meet women at parties? One of the things guys tend to ask me a lot about is how to be in a predictably good mood.

How to be able to take control of how you feel.

In particular, how to get into that kind of mood where your social and positive, friendly and warmed up. We've all been in social situations where we've been like that. Maybe we've had a bad day, or maybe we're feeling really shy or our mind seems to be playing tricks on us.

We kind of had some negative experience and we can't get rid of those negative emotions.

We get into a social situation and we just keep looking at our phone and we want to get home, we just can't get into the groove. I want to give you some tips on how you can predictably get more social, get in the right mood, be in a sort of place where meeting girls is fairly easy.

And in particular, parties, somehow you can get into this sort of zone and you're feeling good and you're confident and you're out of your head.

How to Meet Women at Parties: Meeting girls feels fairly easy.

To give you the solution to this, I'm going to use a really old fashioned piece of advice.

This is something I used to do all the time before I'd go out. I actually forgot that I used to do this until recently. I was on vacation and I was going out on the town with some friends, and I was subconsciously started doing it again. I just.
Consciously and naturally started doing it again because something inside me remembered how powerful it was.

I sort of said to myself, wow what a smart thing to do. What I was doing was using positive affirmations. I just want to explain what positive affirmation are and how to use them well, because a lot of people don't really understand them.

How to Meet Women at Parties: Some guys actually have a resistance to them, lime if you said positive affirmation and believe it has some negative effect. I just want you to know it is actually pretty powerful.

The best way to use positive affirmations is to get of youtube and search for positive affirmations, because there's a lot of really good videos on how to meet women at parties with really cool music.

Before I'd watch this stuff for thirty to sixty minutes. Once I get a list of positive affirmations and say it lime you believe it. To say it with passion. To say it with purpose. To say it with belief.

How to Meet Women at Parties: To really kind of blend yourself with the words.

Not to say it in some acting type way or to say it in some sort of fake way, but to really aim to feel those words. It's not a miracle cure. If you've had a really day, it's not some sort of miracle solution.

It does work better if you do this sort of thing regularly. I've got to tell you for me, I did it so much it would instantly  get me in a good mood. I got to the point where I was actually recording affirmations on audio and playing them to myself on my iphone and iPad.

How to Meet Women at Parties: So if I went out and I was social at a party for example, and I wasn't feeling in a good mood, I'd often go  and sit in my car or go out the back and listen to some of these positive affirmations for fifteen or thirty minutes to get myself in the zone.

It's a really forgotten part of self-improvement the positive affirmations, but I got to tell you, they can really work in situation like this.

10 Sexy Kissing Tips

If she is laying down draw one of her arms above her head and lightly hold her hand. Commence by kissing the soft area on the inside of her upper arm-from her elbow down to her chest. For variation, trail the tip of your tongue in a zigzag down this area.
Kiss her gently near the clavicle (colar bone), then run your tongue in zig zag up to her ear vary slowly. Give her earlobe a little nibble. It's all in the neck guys....

When you're sitting close to your love, start out by softly stroking their face, slowly move your hand to their mouth then very lightly brush the lower lip with one of your fingers. if they seem to love this, then place the tip of that finger in their mouth. My boyfriend loves this, and sometimes he'll start sucking my finger a bit. This leads to a great french kiss!

Gently kiss your partner on the neck, cheek, jaw, and slowly move closer to his/her lips. When you reach their lips, they will be all the more excited to kiss you! My boyfriend sometimes does this and it drives me crazy!

Start by pouring a glass of wine. Take a few sips to get the taste in your mouth. When you lead him to bed, bring the wine with you. While kissing him, dip your finger in the wine. Trace his lips and mouth with your wine-soaked finger and lick the wine off slowly and gently. Take your time. Kissing can be very erotic.

I play a kissing game with my wife. The object of the game is to make your partner try to kiss you. This could be done by lightly kissing her lips. Whoever lasts the longest wins!

Sensually whisper something a little bit naughty in their ear such as "I want you..." or make up your own. Let them feel your breath next to their ear then kiss it and gently nibble it. Move down towards their neck and back up to their lips. 

When kissing... try to catch his/her upper lip between your lips as you're closing your mouth, and suck lightly before letting go. 


When kissing really passionately, stroke the nape of his neck with your fingers.

Think of why you like certain body parts of your love, or why you love to kiss those body parts. For each area, give them a quick kiss there, then whisper why you love that part. Move up and down their body sprinkling them with kisses and sweet words.

He Wants Sex, But She Wants Romance - It's A Dilemma

It's the age old conundrum. He's interested in sex, and she's interested in romance. It's difficult to strike a balance, and it's often the cause of stress in relationships.

From my perspective as a non expert in this area I think it's true. There is a fundamental mismatch between what men want and what women want from their personal relationships.

It's a shame it's this way. You can't blame men, that's how they are. It's how they're wired.

And equally you can't blame women, it's how they are. It's how they're wired.

Of course that's not to say that men don't like romance, or that women don't like sex, but when it comes down to it I think it's clear that men look for more sex from their relationships, and women looks for more romance.

We can of course see this as a major problem in relationships. A stress point in relationships. A burden, a  cause of friction and a cause of distress.


However I think we  ought to look at it differently. If this is just how it is why not see it as an opportunity to celebrate our differences and accept them. Accept, if I'm a man, that she wants romance more than I.


Accept, if I'm a woman, that he wants sex more than I.

And do something about it, use it as a fulcrum to improve our relationships, not to allow it to destabilize them.

I write about gifts for men. I'm not a relationship expert, so take everything I say with a grain of salt. However I look at this from the point of view of gift giving.

I see an opportunity for gift giving to become a part of our relationship. That gift giving can celebrate this particular difference between men and women, and help to bridge the gap.

How? Just like this. A couple need to talk about their likes and dislikes in the relationship. There will be many of course, but I'm just talking about this particular one. And if he is more interested in sex, and she in romance, they need to recognise this. Then they need a strategy to overcome it, and make it a strength in the relationship.

In my view they can do this by gift giving.

So she accepts that he loves sex. She accepts that if the relationship is to run as smoothly as she would like she ought to pander to this a bit. By giving him some nice sexy gifts from time to time. Sexy gifts a man would love.

And he needs to pander to this. To bring gifts to the relationships that she will enjoy. Romantic gifts that he may not normally have thought of. 

He needs to put in the effort to bring more romantic gifts to the relationships, and she needs to put in the effort to bring more sexy gifts to the relationship.

And in this way, in my view, it will become stronger for both, and they may even find that the romantic gifts and sexy gifts bring it all together so that the entire relationship grows and becomes more fulfilling for both. That their sex life improves and their romance life improves.


And then the fundamental conundrum has become a positive, and has strengthened the relationship for them both.